We are all made up of the 4 elements

The elders and wise ones knew how to live and thrive with the 4 elements in nature and within us all to be in harmony and sync with the natural world. 

Cancer, Scorpio, Pisces

Sensitive, introverted, emotional, adaptable, memories, psychic,music oriented, recluse, dreamy, creative, secretive, healers, compassionate

sadness, victimization, reactive, depression, overstimulation, phobias, escape by alcohol and drugs.


Taurus, Virgo, Capricorn

Earthy, Solid, reliable, stable, practical, hard worker, money oriented, perfectionist, routines, quality, assets, functional.

workaholic, boring, critical, controlling, complains, hoarding


Gemini, Libra, Aquarius

Adventurous, curious, verbal, learning, busy, messy, visionaries, social, mental, dexterity, designers, writers, gossipy, fickle, communication, innovative, dynamic.

Worry, anxiety, non committal, detached emotionally, know it all, Lie, co-dependent, confusion.


Aries, Leo, Sagittarius

Bold, loud, impulsive, hot, inspiring, passionate, energetic, athletic, bossy, colorful, leaders, blunt, extroverted, joyful, courageous, dominating.

Anger, selfishness, impatient, overindulge, overreacting, insensitive, violence, Egomania, ignores details.


“Comparison is an act of violence against the self”

- Iyanla Vanzant


Bring with you a burning question or just curiosity to who you are and let the transformation begin. We look for the missing element in you and identify what blockages are keeping you from your truest happiness. 

A transformative process to uncover your elemental makeup (Fire, Air, Earth, Water) and bring them into dialogue.

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This quiz was designed by Debra Silverman Astrologer and Psychotherapist

What's your missing Element? Discover yours!

The following is a survey to establish which elements are naturally strong in your personality and which are less familiar. Take the test and then, when reading each chapter of The Missing Element, go back to the score and pay attention to whether it is an area you need to develop or one that is comfortable and easy to access.

The point of my work is to help you have all four elements in equal proportion and fully expressed. Having said that, no one has all four elements developed; there is always a missing element, and one or two that are effortless and strong. Just like the analogy of four wheels on a car needing to be balanced for an easy ride, so is true also that all four elements in you work best when they are equally balanced.

This is a quick survey that will establish, for you — at the present time — your relationship to each of the four elements.

It is a Yes/No question: If the statement is true 50% or more of the time, say yes and score 1; if less than 50% of the time, say no and score zero; and if undecided, give it a score of 1/2.

Start by taking the element self-survey below. 

“Whatever is born of done in a moment of time has the qualities of this moment of time.”

-C.G Jung



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